what will our lives look like?
i'm falling in love; i'm staying in love. i am no stranger to loving two people at the same time but this is the first time it has been okay and encouraged and that means so many new feelings to sort through.
who do i marry? what kind of choices can i make to ensure that everyone is happy and cared for? what will the future look like for all of us - my partners and my partner's partners? if we have children, how do we keep the government from taking them away if someone finds out we are polyamorous? i think so often about the logistics of this now and wish i had queer polyamorous mentors to turn to.
i want things to feel good for everyone; i want a future full of as much happiness as possible. so much freedom to love seems like it would create an automatic bubble of joy but there are so many factors to consider to make it work in a way that brings happiness to everyone.