the wrong side of history
i'm only going to rant about this once and then i'm never saying anything about it again:
our friendship ended because a mutual friend sexually assaulted me and you not only defended him but continued to bring him into our shared home space, and then moved in with him & his partner after you moved out of our home, and put me in a position where i had to choose to maintain our friendship and continue to see him, or end our friendship so that i could protect myself. i chose you and then when c. was dying, i had to see my assaulter the same day i last saw c. alive & you left me alone outside our second shared home when i dissociated because of it.
and now you've invited this person to your wedding. that i am not invited to. even though i was asked to be a bridesmaid in the wedding you were supposed to have with c. if he hadn't died. and even though we have been trying to rebuild a friendship from the ashes of that disaster.
you are a garbage human being. i think i am very done now.