you're a terrible friend
it never takes more than one phone conversation to remind me why i can't be in a relationship with you and why i don't even really want to be friends with you right now. all we ever talk about is you, what's going on with you. not once in our entire conversation did you ask me how i was or what i had been up to lately, and that is a really common feature of all our conversations.
i can't make your decisions for you and i can't keep playing therapist. we're not even together anymore. you need to learn how to figure out your life on your own and not rely so heavily on other people for everything. and if i'm going to be your support system, at least acknowledge that that's what i am instead of pretending like we have a balanced friendship. we both know it's bullshit, you don't know how to listen.